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Bullying and It’s Lasting Effects

By on Nov 29, 2017 |

In my last blog post, “Why Did You have to Go?”, I wrote about the effects that bullying had on my son.  I received many comments that made an impact on me. The number of adults now in their 50’s – 70’s who commented shared the stories of their vivid recollection of being bullied as children and adolescents.  One of the examples that really stood out to me was a gentleman, age 69, who feels inferior, even after all of these years, because of the effects of bullying in his life.  After serving as a medic in Vietnam, he went on to graduate Magna Cum Laude with a BS in Nursing.  He obtained a Masters in Health Care Administration and a Doctorate in Nursing Practice.  Even with these outstanding career accomplishments, he still carries the invisible scars of bullying. I read an interesting article, “Psychologist’s studies make sense of...

Why Did You Have To Go?

By on Nov 17, 2017 | 4 comments

 This is a question that I have asked my son at least a hundred of times in the past year.  I will never know the full answer until I get to Heaven and see the Big Picture. I am sure that God has a much bigger answer than I am capable of knowing now. It doesn’t make it any easier for me today.  I am choosing to have faith that God has got this. “Faith is deliberate confidence in the character of God whose ways you may not understand at the time. ”  -Oswald Chambers  In the past 13 months I have cried out in my heart, “Why did you have to go?” The answer has been, ” Mom, I did the best that I could with what I knew at the time.”  Now that I have finally come to terms with the reality that I don’t have the answer to everything and that I cannot control everything, his answer has finally sunk in.  He did the best that he could with what he...