It’s Valentine’s Day today. I see the heart shaped boxes of chocolate. I imagine all of the floral bouquets being assembled and delivered today. Expressions of love will be given and received. Expressions of affection that are sometimes hard to articulate will be printed in cards signed by those who wish they could be so eloquent. It is a lovely day that is set aside as a reminder to tell each other we love them. My husband and I are sharing our 36th Valentine’s Day together today. It marks the 32nd Valentine’s Day celebrated as a married couple. Valentine’s Day in the early years of courtship and engagement were grand expressions of love. After marriage, the children began to come, so Valentine’s Day was turned into more of a family expression of love. Regardless of how we have celebrated the day, it has always been reflected in a way that represented the depth of the relationship. I...

We all experience adversity in our lives. It can be the loss of a loved one, the loss of a job, or the loss of a relationship. It can come in the form of physical, emotional, financial, or spiritual distress. While one is in the throes of adversity it feels like a fog that is so thick you can’t see through it. Having the knowledge that others before you have gone through similar experiences is a small comfort. If only adversity came with an instruction booklet so that we could read how everyone else came through to the other side. One of my favorite Bible verses is James 1:2-4 “My brothers and sisters, consider it pure joy when you fall into all sorts of trials because you know that the testing of your faith produces endurance and let endurance have its perfect effect, so that you will be perfect and complete, not deficient in anything.” James is telling us to expect adversity as a...

Today marks the fourth month anniversary of my son’s passing.  That is a sentence that I would have never dreamed I would be typing.  After I typed it, it looked strange to me.  It was as if I were looking at something someone else had written. Over the past four months I have had so many people say, “You are so strong.” or “Your strength is amazing.”.  The funny thing is I don’t feel strong at all.  I feel functional.  I feel capable.  I am able to get dressed every day, feed myself, take care of my home and my family.  But I do not feel that I possess any strength that is more than the average woman  my age.  Nothing before four months ago could have prepared me for this. I was reading a devotional online the other day and I came across a quote by Charles Spurgeon on the subject of strength.  I will share the portion that jumped out at me. “Are you mourning over your own weakness? ...